THE CHILD
I am scared and I just want to run
Deep in a place where I can hide and make fun.
I wish I can see the sun and moon so bright
But all I can have is this dark reel sight.
But now, I am ready to face the world
I am interested and know the truth
I am gentle but yet so wild
Teach me not to fail
Motivate me for I am willing
Guide me because I am a child.
-Elaine Medillo
I want to start my journal with a simple kind of poetry. It entails about a child who knows nothing about the environment, about the world that he sees. The things that he hears and feels are all new to him, thus he feels anxious. In reality, we are all like that (I assume) maybe because we still not yet able to know what will happen to us. We don’t know yet what kind of stimulus that will respond in the event that we do something.
Behaviorism tells us about the principle of stimulus-response. It has been discussed that all behavior caused by external stimuli or the so-called operant conditioning (Skinner). So in relation to the poem above, the child in the first paragraph doesn’t know anything- tabula rose. It is said that behaviorism is naturalistic, so the child is scared and wants to run away, knowing that he doesn’t understand the world around him. This means that the world is the ultimate reality and can be explained by natural laws. The feelings, thoughts and mood are the tenets of behaviorism do not determine what we do. Our behavior is the product of conditioning. Humans and animals are like robots wherein we do not act consciously but rather on the stimuli around us.
Take me back 20 years ago.
I remember when I was young; my mother gives me lollipop every time I will not pee on the bed. Funny it seems but I can relate this one with behaviorism. I feel happy each time I won’t pee on her bed sheet because I can receive my orange flavor lollipop (Php 1.00). I understand that they want my desired behavior which is not to pee on the bed sheet habitual. Unfortunately, not all the times I can’t pee on her favorite bed sheet, so in the event that I will do that, I remember I will not getting a lollipop for two consecutive days, therefore, negative reinforcement given by my parents motivated me to improve my toilet training.
Behaviorism learning theory is very evident in my childhood experience. It is discussed in the module that positive or negative reinforcement can increase the possibility of making the desired behavior outcome again. On the other hand, positive or negative punishment can decrease the said behavior to happen again. Behaviorism itself is a precursor to a cognitive learning especially for a child.
STRICT AND BOLD.
I know that our parents know best. They are very strict on me since I am the eldest. My younger siblings looked up on me. That is why; I have to be the role model. My behavior is set upon the standard of my parents which is to go home early, get good grades, be an honor student, to be kind and shows good manners especially to adults. Later on, when I went to high school, I became an activist. I loved to read communism and socialism books though still I am keeping my grades and follow the rules. Hence, my parents knew it and got really angry on me. At the end of the day, I have to follow my parents and got out from the organization. What was the real wrath? They will not let me go to the university if I still continue to join the mobilization and organization. I was freaking out to know that, definitely that was the real course of reward that I shall get. Of course, I have to choose my school life. Now, I am indeed happy that I followed my parent’s decision to continue and finished my schooling.
I just realized that Skinner is the best! Thanks Skinner I am a registered nurse now and trying to get another license.
MYSTERIOUS WAYS
In operant conditioning, the environment guides our behavior by providing cues about the probable outcome. For example, when initially interacting with an opposite sex person, I am usually observing of how a guy would responds. In fact, I look for signs that he is interested in me. There is a 360 degrees adjustment on my behavior such as being friendlier. I am a keen observer so I am trying to figure out what to do and say next. However, the modification of my behavior is not suitable for some reason. He got irritated. Boom! Left me nowhere. Sounds odd but its true. So I realized that I need to know warning signs. We can either avoid an environment entirely or change parts of it so that it is less likely to produce the unwanted behavior. The simplest rule is to “put myself in the right place at the right time.”
It amazed me again in studying Behaviorism Theory of Learning because I can relate it and learn from it. Though some people think it is like a pseudo science. However, what matters most is what you believe.
“Compare two people, one of whom has been crippled by an accident, the other by an early environmental history which makes him lazy and, when criticized, mean. Both cause great inconvenience to others, but one dies a martyr, the other a scoundrel.”
― B.F. Skinner, About Behaviorism